On January 15th, Rex did something amazing...he pulled himself up to stand!
Rex has low muscle tone throughout his body. I don't know if I have mentioned that before now. It not only explains his physical delays, but also makes me glad I didn't push breastfeeding with him. When Rex started physical therapy over a year ago (at eight months old), he couldn't even roll over. Last September, he started crawling, then a couple months later came the kneeling and now he's standing and even cruising a little. He is so proud of himself and is into EVERYTHING!
I don't remember how long ago it was, but I was talking with my pastor about Rex and how well he was doing, but also mentioned how slowly it seemed he was progressing. Dave asked me, "How old were you when you started walking?" Kinda' confused, I said, "I don't know." He responded, "Exactly. As adults, no one cares how old you were when you started walking." I have found so much encouragement in that.
Rex is so smart, independent, and determined. He is also very stubborn (just like his daddy). He is a problem-solver and wants to figure things out on his own. Everything is done in Rex's time. Seth likes to say that "Rex isn't delayed--he's right on schedule for Rex." It's kind of like God's timing...God is rarely early, but never late. When we surrender our plans and our timetable to God, life is so much simpler. We have tried to take that same attitude with Rex's development. Throw out our expectations and the world's definition of "normal" and "age-appropriate," and let Rex be Rex. I will still teach, guide, and push him, but I refuse to stress over him. I REFUSE TO STRESS.
My amazing boy is standing, and eventually he will walk. But I don't want to miss out on celebrating THIS milestone because I am so busy looking ahead to the next one. We so often miss the lesson God is teaching or the blessing He is trying to give us because we are trying to look ahead. Enjoy today. Appreciate today.Celebrate today.